SunnySumm’s Story
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Made on January 26, 2007
So, long story short...
While SunnySumm was forgiving a cheater
SunnySumm made the mistake of
forgiving that cheater multiple times
My Advice to You is
rememer that handy dandy catchphrase, "Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater"
Here's the whole story
The story is a typical one-I dated a guy for over a year, had a lot invested in him, and he cheated. OF COURSE I took him back-he said he was sorry. I now know "Sorry" = "Sorry I got caught, but don't think I won't do it again!" I finally wised up and realized that after the 2nd time of confirmed cheating, there were probably more, I just didn't know yet. Always listen to friends, family, or any random person in your life when they tell you to be careful-they are probably right. New life plan-You cheat once and you are out!
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Comments (4)
I voted for Pedro. But I also voted for freak randomness. Can't be random when you're not single. ;)
Want love? Rent a movie.
I don't think i've ever seen a relationship stay together after someone cheated. Not even in a movie come to think about it.
i would have said, "hell yeah! cheaters never stop cheating!" a few months back.. but not now. yes, i was once a serial cheater... i cheated so many times til the excitement and exhiliration of cheating was lost..
people change. its not up to you. its up to them if they wanna change for the better.
and
its better to have loved than not to have at all.
Actually I don't really agree with what you said here. I can relate to the fact that most people will keep on cheating though.
But I once did something horribly wrong in my relationship (not cheating nor kissing though), but at some point I just felt the urge to tell it to my girlfriend. I didn't have the guts, so i put my chatlogs on my desktop for her to read while I was away (which she did). We had a big arguement, where I admitted that I had been terribly wrong and now we've been together for 2,5 years and I would never think about cheating nor acting stupid like that again...
You see, not everyone is evil ;)