adman’s Story
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So, long story short...
adman made the mistake of
agreeing to breaking it off
My Advice to You is
don't worry about the future
Here's the whole story
I just graduated college and in my last class I met the incredible girl and we worked together all term on our final project. She had a boyfriend so I didn't make a move.
Two weeks before graduations - so about a month ago - she broke up with her boyfriend of a year and a half. About 2 weeks ago her and I began dating.
This girl is incredible and we click. Yesterday she decided that she was becoming too attached and wasn't totally over her ex-boyfriend.
We both know that I am probably moving away in the coming weeks, so to spare a harder time later she said we should stop dating now, before both of us get even more attached.
I am an idiot for not fighting more, her and I have the best time together, we should still be dating. Who cares if I am leaving soon? Why can't we enjoy the time we have together as much as we can? Dangit!
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I know your feeling and I know her feeling
when she broke up with her last bf, she was hurt, and now she deosn't want to get hurt again so she's trying to spar this time of misery, and she is "easying" up the things for you...
I have learned that if you find that one woman... the one who stays with you, even when she's not physically around.
Is someone worth fighting for. Jobs will come and go, but someone special... only shows up rarely.
Don't let this situation become a regret... let her go completely, or fight for her like your life depended on it.
Tell her how you really feel and let the chips fall where they may.
If you can see her in your future, clearly, marrying her, and doing important things together, don't let her go. Promise to help her get over her ex boyfriend and really, who cares if you are moving away? If you don't have to plans to move away, don't. Stay behind just to show her that you care, that you're going to be there whether she wants you there or not, she'll come around.